Shin seiki Evangelion Gekijô-ban: Air/Magokoro wo, kimi ni1997

Misato Katsuragi:
You hate yourself, don't you? That's why you hurt others. Deep down you know you suffer more when you cause someone else pain... than if you just let yourself get hurt. But Shinji, that was your decision, so it makes it a valid choice. That's what you wanted. So, that makes it worthwhile. Stop lying to yourself and realize that you *do* have options. Then... accept the choices you've made.

Shinji Ikari:
But you're not me! You don't know what I have to go through! You don't understand!

Misato Katsuragi:
[enraged] So f***ing what if I'm not you! That doesn't mean it's okay for you to give up! If you do, I'll *never* forgive you as long as I live!