Glee2009

Burt Hummel:
[Having "the talk" with his son] Now for most guys sex is, just, ya know, this thing we always want to do. Ya know, its fun, feels great, but we're not really thinking too much about, ya know, how it makes us feel on the inside, or, ya know, how the other person feels about it.

Kurt Hummel:
Women are different?

Burt Hummel:
Only because they get that its about something more than just the physical. Ya know, when you're intimate with somebody, in that way, you're exposing yourself, ya know, you're never gonna be more vulnerable, and that scares the hell out of a lot of guys. Believe me, I can't tell you how many buddies I've got who have gotten way too deep with a girl who said she was cool with just hooking up.

Kurt Hummel:
But that's not going to happen to me, Dad.

Burt Hummel:
No, its gonna be worse. Because its two guys. With two guys you got two people who think that sex is just sex. Its gonna be easier to come by. And once you start doing this stuff you're not going to want to stop. Yah just... you gotta know that it means something. You know, its doing something... to you, to your heart, to your self esteem, even though it feels like... you're just having fun.

Kurt Hummel:
So you're saying I shouldn't have sex?

Burt Hummel:
I think on your 30th birthday it is a great gift to yourself. [pause] Kurt, when you're ready, I want you to be able to... do everything. But when you're ready I want you to, use it as a way to connect to another person. Don't throw yourself around, like you don't matter. 'Cause you matter, Kurt.

Kurt Hummel:
[pause] Is that it?

Burt Hummel:
That's it, for now. Can I make you some toast?

Kurt Hummel:
I think I'll take it up to my room to eat while I look over my new pamphlets [he gathers the gay sex ed. pamphlets his father has brought home] . Thank you Dad.

Burt Hummel:
You're welcome. [Kurt leaves. Burt sighs a deep sigh of relief]