Sons of Anarchy, Season 3

Clay:
Probably 40, 50 patches watching us right now. We represent the past, present, and future of this club. Sure, the Sons are a democratic nation, but everybody knows what happens in Charming sets the tone for every charter.

Jax:
And what's happening in Charming?

Clay:
You tell me. These men behind us, they love you. They respect you and they understand your grief. But they're also wondering what you're gonna do with it.

Jax:
That's my business.

Clay:
No it isn't. None of these guys are old enough to remember what happened to your old man and how he fell apart and lost focus when Thomas died.

Jax:
Yeah, well, I'm not my old man.

Clay:
I know that, but they don't. You gotta show 'em something. Make the hard choice, son.

Jax:
And what choice would that be?

Clay:
Either Abel is dead, and you want revenge, or he's alive, and you would kill to find him. Now if you can't make that decision, then you better get down on your hands and knees and pray for something to get you there fast.